Verb + ~ing or to... (1) (remember/regret etc.)

    A. When one verb follows another verb, the structure is usually verb + ~ing or verb + to ... Compare:
  verb + ~ing
  * They denied stealing the money.
  * I enjoy going out.
  Often we use ~ing for an action that happens before the first verb or at the same time:
  stealing <- denied
  verb + to ...
  * They decided to steal the money.
  * I want to go out.
  Often we use to... for an action that follows the first verb:
  decided -> to steal  want -> to go
  This difference is often helpful (see Section B) but does not explain all uses of ~ing and to...
    B. Some verbs can be followed by ~ing or to... with a difference of meaning:
  remember
  I remember doing something = I did it and now I remember this.
  You remember doing something after you have done it:
  * I'm absolutely sure I locked the door. I clearly remember locking it. (= I locked it, and now I remember this)
  * He could remember driving along the road just before the accident happened, but he couldn't remember the accident itself.
  I remembered to do something = I remembered that I had to do it, and so I did it.
  You remember to do something before you do it:
  * I remembered to lock the door when I left but I forgot to shut the windows. (= I remembered that I had to lock the door and so I locked it)
  * Please remember to post the letter. (= don't forget to post it)
  regret
  I regret doing something = I did it and now I'm sorry about it:
  * I now regret saying what I said. I shouldn't have said it.
  I regret to say/to tell you/to inform you = I'm sorry that I have to say (etc.):
  * (from a formal letter) We regret to inform you that we are unable to offer you the job.
  go on
  Go on doing something = continue doing the same thing:
  * The minister went on talking for two hours.
  * We must change our ways. We can't go on living like this.
  Go on to do something = do or say something new:
  * After discussing the economy, the minister then went on to talk about foreign policy.
    C. begin  start  intend  continue  bother
  These verbs can be followed by ~ing or to... with little or no difference in meaning. So you can say:
  * It has started raining. or It has started to rain.
  * John intends buying a house. or John intends to buy ...
  * Don't bother locking the door. or Don't bother to lock ...
  But normally we do not use ~ing after ~ing:
  * It's starting to rain. (not 'it's starting raining')
EXERCISES
  55.1 Put the verb into the correct form, ~ing or to... . Sometimes either form is possible.
  1. They denied _stealing_ the money. (steal)
  2. I don't enjoy --- very much. (drive)
  3. I don't want --- out tonight. I'm too tired. (go)
  4. I can't afford --- out tonight. I haven't got enough money. (go)
  5. Has it stopped --- yet? (rain)
  6. Can you remind me --- some coffee when we go out? (buy)
  7. Why do you keep --- me questions? Can't you leave me alone? (ask)
  8. Please stop --- me questions! (ask)
  9. I refuse --- any more questions. (answer)
  10. One of the boys admitted --- the window. (break)
  11. The boy's father promised --- for the window to be repaired. (pay)
  12. Ann was having dinner when the phone rang. She didn't answer the phone; she just carried on ---. (eat)
  13. 'How did the thief get into the house?' 'I forgot --- the window.' (shut)
  14. I've enjoyed --- you. (meet) I hope --- you again soon. (see)
  15. The baby began --- in the middle of the night. (cry)
  16. Julia has been ill but now she's beginning --- better. (get)
  55.2 Here is some information about Tom when be was a child.
  1. He was in hospital when he was four.
  2. He went to Paris when he was eight.
  3. Once he fell into a river.
  4. He cried on his first day at school.
  5. He said he wanted to be a doctor.
  6. Once he was bitten by a dog.
  He can still remember 1, 2 and 4. But be can't remember 3, S and 6. Write sentences beginning He can remember ... or He can't remember...
  1. He can remember being in hospital when he was four.
  2. ---
  3. ---
  4. ---
  5. ---
  6. ---
  55.3 Complete these sentences with a suitable verb in the correct form, ~ing or to ...
  1. a. Please remember to lock the door when you go out.
  b. A: You lent me some money a few months ago.
  B: Did I? Are you sure? I don't remember --- you any money.
  c. A: Did you remember --- your sister?
  B: Oh no, I completely forgot. I'll phone her tomorrow.
  d. When you see Mandy, remember --- her my regards, won't you?
  e. Someone must have taken my bag. I clearly remember --- it by the window and now it has gone.
  2. a. I believe that what I said was fair. I don't regret --- it.
  b. (after a driving test) I regret --- that you have failed the test.
  3. a. Keith joined the company 15 years ago. He was quickly promoted and became assistant manager after two years. A few years later he went on --- manager of the company.
  b. I can't go on --- here any more. I want a different job.
  c. When I came into the room, Liz was reading a newspaper. She looked up and said hello to me, and then went on --- her newspaper.
Answer
55.1
  2 driving  3 to go
  4 to go  5 raining
  6 to buy  7 asking
  8 asking  9 to answer
  10 breaking  11 to pay
  12 eating  13 to shut
  14 meeting ... to see
  15 crying or to cry
  16 to get
  55.2
  2 He can remember going to Paris when he was eight.
  3 He can't remember falling into a river.
  4 He can remember crying on his first day at school.
  5 He can't remember saying he wanted to be a doctor. or He can't remember wanting to be.
  6 He can't remember being bitten by a dog.
  55.3
  1 b. lending
  c. to phone
  d. to give
  e. leaving/putting
  2 a. saying
  b. to say or to tell you
  3 a. to become
  b. working

  c. reading